I am a 74 year old male living in Orange County whose deceased wife was a member of DWC. She has been gone now for over three years and I know now even more than I did before why the discipline sessions were necessary. She was a member for a few years, but I was being disciplined, mostly by over the knee spankings for about 35 years of our 38 year marriage. My wife used a paddle ball paddle that she took the ball and elastic band off and also a wide leather belt at times and after she became a member of DWC she added many instruments to her collection. Most of the times after just one disciplinary session with the cane, taws, birch or some other item was all it took to wise me up. I didn't and still don't want to be spanked but I know I need it and I'm willing to take it. I must say that I love life and I  guess I'm selfish in a sort of a way and I know that if I continue along the path I'm going in I can't even guess where I'll end up. Since she passed away I reverted back to some of my old habits which were the main reasons she started to discipline me. I never thought I would say it but I think I need someone to take me in hand and mete out discipline again. I don't need a person who just likes to beat a male's behind or BDSM. I want a person that would take me in hand because she really cares about a fellow human being and is willing to get me back on the straight & narrow path. 

Mike at   missmydw@hotmail.com