Hello, first of all Thank You for taking a moment of your time to give me a click. I am very private in my need for traditional methods of discipline. For now my real name and photo will also remain private.  I am a SWM, from the Rochester , NY area, 45, 5'5," 155, short brown hair, and brown eyes. When not at work, I am an avid photographer who enjoys listening to talk radio and alternative music, watching late night TV, and (buns of steel) riding bicycle year round. I do not drink, or smoke, it is not an issue if you do, yet I still have some bad habits I could use a helping hand with.

There have been many times in my adult life where I have done things that left me with the feeling that I would be spanked if anyone had a choice in the matter.  Of course I would never admit to such a thing. Thanks to the Internet, I went from thinking about my need to be spanked to reading about women who spank men and then to viewing images of women who spank men.  Eventually it seemed that women in skirts and heels, seated in straight back chairs, with a large wooden hairbrush at hand were the common denominators in the stories and images that caught my attention.

Two years ago I took the plunge and submitted myself to the tender mercies of women willing to spank me.  While it has been an interesting couple of years, I have yet to meet a true "Top" of the half dozen women who have spanked me, all have been "Switches."  These experiences had more to do with being erotic than discipline.  And so of course I still long to meet a woman who is a spanker by nature.

While I certainly appreciate the fact that a woman may wish to spank a man simply because it pleases her, or that she may have desires beyond spankings, I feel it is essential that she also be very capable in the administration of the old fashioned style discipline she will find that I need.

I know these things to be true, as I grew up under the firm handed guidance of the women in my family.  If you think you can tame this bad boy, AND would enjoy doing so, please do send me an e-mail.

Thank You
badboy585ny@yahoo.com