Hi, my name is Eric. I'm a 40 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in this lifestyle since 1990.

My interests are reading, movies, and am a member of a military history society. Also, I'm
a major science fiction and fantasy fan.

I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious, preferably long term, relationship with a woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship in which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm interested in being someone's significant other but not their slave.

First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia  which limits how I can play and what I can do.

Personally, I prefer dominant women who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things.

I'm seeking a single dominant woman  who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.

I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. I am looking for a woman who wants to do this  type lifestyle 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please email me.  Eric at  

lokisgodhi@yahoo.com