I am seeking a long-term and loving female head of household relationship (hopefully leading to marriage).

I am in my 30's, 5-'10", 175 lbs, have never been married, have no kids (I like kids, but I don't have any), in good physical condition, college educated and have a good and well-paying professional career.

I experience great satisfaction when I am working to make life easier and better for the female in my life.  I am happiest when my focus is on her and I am doing things for her both when it is asked of me and at other times coming up with surprises that she will appreciate and put a smile on her face.  My motto to live by is "when she is happy, then I am happy".

It's my opinion, that female-in-charge relationships are generally much more happier and harmonious then other relationships.  I am intelligent and fully capable and willing to have polite discussions and debate about various topics but ultimately the relationship is so much better off when the female gets the final say.  It's not as if my ideas aren't logical, in fact at times she will find my ideas and opinions of great value.  However from my experiences, female-led decisions typically turn out the best for both the female and male and for the relationship as a whole. (male decisions regrettable seem to be centered a lot of the time on the male's needs and wants only)

I am also a highly capable individual and my future wife will find me to be a valuable and productive partner and will even have me oversee the implementation of many of her "household decisions".  An analogy would be that the female is like the "CEO" of the relationship and sets the overall direction and I am a "middle level management executive" that carries out her mission statement and oversees it's implementation and responsible for the overall hard work of making it happen. I'm sure that I will have chores to do that are needed for day to day household upkeep but my future wife will see that I am very valuable beyond just domestic tasks.

I also see great benefits to the relationship for the female to have complete and unconditional authority to use domestic discipline in a loving and caring manner whenever and however she sees fit.  As stated previously my motto is "when she is happy, I am happy" and 95% of the time I am a well-behaved male.  However, I do on occasion have immature moments which seem to be a common male fault.  I always feel so guilty and ashamed when I have an immature moment and it's a horrible feeling to disappoint the female in my life.  A marriage where the wife uses strict and firm old fashioned spankings to correct the husband's behavior is a very comforting and reassuring to me.  She gets to make her point that whatever I did was not acceptable and I will feel better in the long-run knowing that once the discipline is over that I can learn from it and get back to making her happy.  There's no better way of quickly resolving a conflict than a sore male bottom.

I greatly look forward to the day when I enter into the perfect DWC relationship with the female of my dreams.  What a warm and inviting household it will be where there is no power struggles and everyone feels well cared for and loved. 

Sweetandniceboy at Boymantis@aol.com