I believe a warmhearted and caring atmosphere is essential to well being and effective discipline. Therefore, in my world, chastisement must always be given with love, and even tenderness. This contrasts sharply with what you find all over the internet.

I am independent and self-employed; working in the music and community arts fields. I am prepared to move if necessary and could work as a piano tuner. Live music is very important to me and I confess to being addicted to J S Bach.

I am also writing books in relationship to my passions and intend to run workshops, give talks and put on more concerts. In all these pursuits I am committed to working for the benefit of the whole community.

Who do I want YOU to be? Good question. Answer: The very real and rounded person that you are. Dominance is one trait I find attractive, but maybe there are moments when you feel vulnerable and expect me to be strong and assertive? Your age or looks are not that important to me - the spark is there between us, or it isn't. Health of the mind, body and spirit have to be worked for, and I welcome all the discipline needed to live accordingly, and by the values we share.

In whatever precious time we have left on this planet I would like us to be engaged positively with the natural world - preferably growing our own food and living in the presence of trees, birds and songs - all things uplifting. Please contact me if you feel a resonance with that which I have expressed. Perhaps we could create happiness for each other?

Your sincerely,
Paul (52 years)
Brighton UK
fr2fragile@hotmail.com